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​                         BLOGS
                          2023
​Jan - Job's Wife 
Feb - Cast Away
Feb - Don't!
Feb - Stand
May - 'Pay" Yourself
June - For By One Man's Obedience

June - Mary Sat. Jesus Let Her.
July - TPM It's Not Dead  (aired 2006)

July - MOVE! (2002)
July - In The Presence of My Enemies
August - Broken. Humble. Stewardship of Your Gift.

Don't Be A Haman.
​​Sept - Who's Doing The Talking?
October - Do We Really Want An Apology?
October - Two Faces.
October- Come Here

October- God Can Make Your Situation So Unique
October- It's Not A Miracle, We Just Decided...
November -  Move To The Front Of The Line
November - Glad to Have Nerves
November - Prayer
​December - We've Discussed This Before.
​​​December - Healed!
December - My Testimony. The End.
Last and First Dreams of 2023/24.
Dreams & Vascillating on How I Feel About the Issues.
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                         2022
July - Boundaries 
                         2021
June​ - Resumes'
                         2020
Jan - Bits N Pieces
​                           2018
​Nov - Links to TPM Wearables for purchase.
Oct - Mistaken for the side piece.
July - I Cor 7:34 - An Observation, not a Command.
​May - Women, we change the atmosphere.
March  - Women's History: 
Black Women Preachers;
No More Smallin' Up of Me; Our Greatest Fear.
February - Valentines...daily!
​January - Random thoughts.
                       2017
Dec - Christmas...don't get too deep.
Nov - Happy Thanksgiving!

October - That's not worship.
August - The devil is a liar!
July - Where do you f-i-t?
Be Consistent.
June - "No" instead of "Go".
April - Let them "kill" you.
March -Woman, You are good
enough.

February - What ministry is calling you?
January - Woman, Go!
                       2016
November - Don't be a Jonah.
October - It's Time for a new
season.
September - Youth, here is something you can conquer.
Aug - 
July - Passive/Aggressive Leaders.
June - It's hard to leave.

June - YOU ARE STILL RESPONSIBLE.
(aka How Women Might Miss God.)
May - Woman, why are you
still there?
April - Passive/Aggressive  people.
March - God will give you His
own special pulpit
Feb - Rejection can be a blessing.

January - Snakes in your life.
                       2010
Inclusion or Not? Which one are you?
​                       2000
August - Move!/Sometimes You Gotta
Leave Home To Be Blessed
                       1996
January - So what?

​August - But I Wrought For My Names Sake 



​Woman, do you ever feel like a dead tree, even though you know God has filled you with living water and knowledge/wisdom that needs to be shared?  Well, be encouraged.  Do what's necessary to go from feeling like a dead tree to BEing/sharing the fruitful, flowering tree that God has made you and wants to contiue to make you.

Isaiah 61"For the Spirit of the Lord God is upon me;.." https://www.biblegateway.com/audio/mclean/kjv/Isa.61


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                    BLOGS
                     2025
Feb - TPMs on FB: RCC                    Thought Provoking Moments
Feb - Printed Works
​Feb - Dreams (Horses & More)
Jan - Rabbit
Jan - God Decides It's Yours
                     2024
Dec -Tell It or Not?
Dec - Wait!
Dec - Letting Go Helps Others.
Nov - Let Me In. Better Yet, Don't.
Nov - LOUD.
Nov - The Line
Oct - First, the Eye Roll. Then, the Lesson.
Oct - Monster!
Sept - (Off the cuff)...
Sept - Who Will You Be?
Sept. - From Sugar to ...
Sept - September Notes...
Aug - It's Your Fault.
Aug - Bricks Without Straw
Aug - Clean Houses
Jul - Stop the Meanness
Jul -  Why Aren't You Helping People?
​Jul - Distraction?
Jul - Reactions To The Light
​Jul - Set and Enforce Your Boundaries.
Jul - We'll Use It On You, Too.
Jul - Too Many Transitions 
June  My Plug-Ins for The Formula
Jun - My One-Word Prayers
Jun - What's Next?

May - ​Numbers 25. Homework.
May - 3 Books Down. 3 To Go.
May - The Promised Land For Your Teen.
May - Perception or  Perspective?
April - Then You Win.
April - You Made Your Bed.
April - God Will Encourage            Us To Get It Done.

​March - Women
March - Hosea

March - We Don't Have to                 Prop Up God
​March - God Will     
             Encourage Us To
             Get It Done

Feb - Peebles Hurt!
Feb - The Lion of the Tribe of
         Judah Within U
s
Feb - The Road
Feb - Keep Your Teeth
Feb - Where Does It Come
        From?

Feb - Stuff I Have To Work            On.
Feb - Dummy Down
Jan - Start Right.
Jan - Foundations Matter.
Jan - Gnats and Camels.
Jan - A Rat!
Jan - Punishment?
Jan - Right? Wrong? Both?
Jan - Dreams & Vascillating
        on My Feelings About
         the Issues. (edited)
Jan - Now, I Know Why.
Jan - Leave Joe Alone!
Jan - What Would You Title
        This?

Last and First Dreams of 2023/24.
Dreams & Vascillating on How I Feel About the Issues.
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Broken. Humble.  Stewardship over Our Gifts.

8/29/2023

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Broken means prepared to do God's will and being the YOU God called YOU to be. Broken from doing what everyone else always wants us to do. Broken from not doing what everyone else wants us to not do. Broken from working their system for they glory. Broken from blending in. Broken from being quiet in the land/in someone else's 'field'/per someone else's instructions, when we should be doing what God called us to do.

Humble means doing God's will and being the YOU God called YOU to be.
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People can lead and guide you and give advice to trim you up. YOU know the difference between training/trimming vs interference. WE know the difference between someone helping us go further vs someone who uses "help" to try to stop, suppress, or even move us past what God intended which will absolutely lead to failure because that's not the mark God intended for us to reach. 
How do we know? We feel it. Why do we feel it? God tells us. It's God's assignment so God tells us when directions are right or wrong. 
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How many have been forced into or out of things by controlling people? How many have been manipulated into or out of their God-assignment for the sake of the manipulators ego to stop or ego use them? Even in secular society, kids have been controlled into practicing hours-a-day for the piano or gymnastics or choir to suit an adult and hate it when they get old enough to understand they were forced BUT are STUCK in it because they don't/weren't allowed to know how to do anything else.  This happens in the world of religion also. How many priests didn't have a choice because every family had to have a son who would rise to the priesthood? Yes, successful but trapped. Doing it but with inward hatred. 
The LESSON is to know for yourself.  WE are the stewards of the talent, call or gift God gave us. We are resonsible for saying yes to the right leader/helper/coach and no the the wrong leader/helper/coach.  Even when we have the right leader/helper/coach, we still have to utilize our yes and no when particular assignments or instructions match or don't match our spirit. Our final answer, daily, is to God. Leaders/helpers/coaches don't know it all. Only God knows ALL He has for us to do with what He's given us.  Yes, listen to others, run by God and don't be afraid to give it a yes or no. 



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Don't Be A Haman

8/9/2023

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