Note: I thought I'd done this one before. I know I have. I don't know where? Radio? Facebook? Twitter? I don't remember.  Here it goes again. Read. Learn.

You wanted her mad, angry and sad. So why aren't you happy? You plotted to make sure to provoke these emotions in her: the purposely hurtful words you said to her; the "No" you responded to her heart-felt requests of things she desired or needed; the "No" you said to things you could have said "Yes" to without taking any skin off your nose; the things you didn't participate in just to vex her; the things that would have been right for you to do for the two of you and the family, but you went left just to do what would bother her and cause her and you all to miss something good;  and the freedom and goodness you gave the dog, cat and children but held away from her (they've had more privileges and freedom to make choices than she does!).

SO, why are you unhappy and complaining to yourself, God and others that you have a grouchy, mean, unhappy, sad, angry, unmotivated wife? Your plan worked! She's sad. She's angry. She's unhappy. She's unstable because she constantly trying to dodge shots fired by you. But, now you have an attitude because of her unhappiness that you plotted and planned! You did things that would provoke all of that in her, so why aren't you happy? 

You've dummied her down and treated her like she's a child. You're angry because she can't carry out the tasks you need her to do for your projects to succeed. Why can't she carry out the instructions or think for  herself on how to do what needs to be done? Well, you convinced her that she's dumb by rejecting and criticizing everything in life that she's done; or she knows you're going to poo-poo everything or every way she does whatever she does for herself and for you (even if it's done the way you request), because your goal is to make her feel and be  dumb. She doesn't even try either because she's convinced by you that she's incapable of doing anything right or she knows whatever she does will be attacked even if it's done your way. So, where has that gotten you? You have to do all the work or you get others to help you by telling them about her inability to do it (leaving out the part about how your treatment of her has broken her spirit).

Lord, spare the children who are put through this same treatment or worse meaning they are  treated the exact opposite but have to watch their Mom be treated like she's nobody.

I've watched this happen in some families who thought they were doing God's will.  Be it family, business, employees, etc, get saved and follow Christ and His life of loving himself and others, get help for desires to be mean to your spouse, and don't seek to bother anybody in a negative way. Everyone is human. No human is better than another. You never know how you may need or desire a person later on. 






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