Why They Don't (to help you find peace)

​Your chart to know then let go. This will give some help to get you to God for the peace you need. (Sometimes, people can't let go until they understand. Don't trip. You're the same way. Just yesterday you asked yourself, "I wonder why they're acting weird? What happened? Did I do or say something?" So, don't point fingers at others for wondering the same thing.)

1 - They're nice to you in private but act like they dislike or don't know you in the presence of particular people:

A -
Your acquaintance convinced those particular people that he or she doesn't like you. So, in their presence, your acquaintance has to walk their bad talk about you, with a weird trust that you will still receive them as a friend again when you all are away from those people. Basically, you're supposed to understand and be totally fine with being the one they have to hide from their 'better' friends.
Ignore them. They don’t know you? You don’t know them.
Dump them. Be busy the next time they call, and the next, and the next.

B -
They cheat often on their significant other. So, in public, they act like they don't know you. You're just a co-worker, classmate, car pool group mate, kids' team parent group member, band booster, co-volunteer, etc. They're so accustomed to acting like they don't know the people they cheat with or the friends they hang with while looking for people to cheat with, that they just ignore everyone in public except their significant other, just to be safe.
Two options:
Leave them alone in public.
Leave them alone in public and ask for an explanation later or not.
Say, "HEY! It's good to see you. Remember that time we....oh never mind. I'll see you at work tomorrow." LOL! Look back to see if Sig Other is giving them a dirty look. 😁

2 - They almost clamor for you and anything you do, because they need you, but act like they don't know you and wouldn't dare be seen talking to you in front of others.

A -
They don't have a clue. So, they get your input because you have incredible knowledge'. Then, they get paid for all the knowledge they borrowed from you. I heard this happened often in marketing and design industries, and legal (attorney) groups.

B -
Mother - something. I don't know what to call it. But, for Adults. Think back when we were kids. We clung to Mother for everything, but when around our friends, we acted like we didn't know the woman, like we did everything on our own - clothes, choosing food, etc. - all the things we learned from Mother. What do Mothers do? They stand back, try to be invisible like their kids want, and let the kids spend time with their friends like a big girl or big boy who does not need Mother, KNOWING she will receive them back as her needy kid at the end of the visit/event/game/dance/etc.


Some of you think this is a stretch. It’s not.
 
Some of you got some enlightenment on some situations and have already made choices before you even got to the end of the blog.   You’re Welcome. 

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