Loud!

People who do you wrong out loud, and are willing to talk about it with you, usually want to talk about it in private.

They can be loud doing you wrong, but ask you to be quiet completely or discuss it with them privately.

Now, when they're loud, believe that others know it.  That's the kick they get out of saying or doing things against you aloud...so their friends and cohorts can witness, giggle, brag and high-five the perpetrator.

Why would the perpetrator expect you to help them deal, lie, apologize in private...or at least in front of their friend-group that helps them celebrate after they mistreat you?

Like, "Okay, I'm doing this to you, but can you keep it a secret for me?" 

Who?

Teacher won't give you the A you earned until you do another project that the other A students don't have to do and can't be told about...perhaps, because weirdo, racists, sexists, religious, non-religious, or ageist  Teacher doesn't want them to stand up for you.

Pedophile.

Auto Repairman overcharging you, not according to the job but according to what they need to pay their next bill and they think you can afford to overpay better than his other customers.

Him. Yes. Him.

Her. 

The neighbor sneaks their trash in your dumpster so they don't have to pay a waste removal bill, leaving you to deal with notes from the company that your dumpster is overflowing past capacity too many times.

The bully.

Abusive parents, significant others, siblings, classmates, teammates, or offspring.

Your marketing company project manager boss that takes your ideas as their own because they don't have a clue, and they want you to hide their cluelessness.

The office or break room refrigerator thief.


What do you get out of it? Taken advantage of, maltreatment or mistreatment.
You don't even get paid big money to keep their secrets!!! 


​Seek God to know the limit, when to stop taking, when or if to tell, and if to tell it loudly or have mercy this time so He can do His will with them if they do it a next time.  Then, don't be afraid to do what God says.


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